Is “Right Person, Wrong Time” Actually Real? ft Logan Ury

U Up?

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Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Comedy

4.7 • 14.8K Ratings

🗓️ 18 March 2026

⏱️ 80 minutes

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Summary

Jared is joined by Hinge relationship expert, Logan Ury, to break down some of the biggest dating questions listeners are dealing with right now. They debate whether asking for a voice note before a first date is an innocent preference or a major red flag, and unpack the idea of “digital body language” when someone is great in person but disappears over text. They also dive into the classic “right person, wrong time” debate and the Sex and the City taxi-light theory of commitment. Also, one listener wonders if dating in NYC has become impossible thanks to hyper optimized schedules full of cold plunges, pilates, and skincare routines. Is it selfish or self care? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello and welcome to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jared Freed and I am joined by today's special
0:09.4	co-host Logan Yuri. Thank you for coming on the show. Yay, I love being here with you.
0:13.9	Logan, it is always a pleasure to have you on. You've been on her show. You're like an OKP,
0:18.3	original key player. You were on, you are one of our most listened to
0:23.2	episode Jared gets a dating coach that was like that was on the benefits so it's a benefits
0:29.1	episode if you want you can go to the benefits sign up the link is in the bio you can get
0:34.2	updates with jordana our regular co-host, who's definitely coming back.
0:39.0	You know, the post, we tape these ahead of time, but the post with Jordana's babies, Charlie
0:45.5	and Lucy are here.
0:46.8	We're so excited.
0:48.3	It is the U-Up family has been completed.
0:51.5	We want to wish Jordana and Mike, congratulations.
0:55.5	We've already done it a thousand times. By the time this comes out, the babies are going to be, you know, 18 years old and going to
0:59.7	college. So if you want to hear updates from Jordana, go sign up for benefits. But you can also
1:04.3	search through the benefits episode and see the episode that was like one of our biggest
1:08.4	benefits episodes, Jared gets a dating coach. Do you remember taping that? Yes, of course. And I don't like to read Reddit comments, but I did find that I think in the U-Up Reddit, subreddit, there's like 70 comments about that episode. So people are really 70. I don't go to Reddit. I don't deal with those monsters. Yeah, I think that's a lesser form of society,
1:28.5	but I'm happy they enjoy the show. I know. You have enough Jared Fried snark in your own head. Yeah, I don't, right. Thank you. I don't need that. I don't need the, you know, the more things about me that I didn't even think of. You can just call your mom if you want someone to tell you What's wrong with my mom.
1:43.0	She's out of her mind.
1:43.9	You know, my mom is like, I think she's like,
1:46.3	she might be on the Reddit's. mom if you want someone to tell you what's wrong with you my mom she's out of her mind you know my mom is like
1:44.9	I think she's like she might be on the reddits well that's what was so funny about our episode I mean
1:50.3	among many things was that I had a pre-call with your mom and with Jordana oh yeah I forgot
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