Okay, so let's start here. One of the things I loved about you, I still do.

Wait, you said loved. When we were dating.

Oh, okay. This, this, this, this...

You don't love it anymore? No, I just said I still do. But it was marking because I remember thinking

you have such a high drive for doing whatever it is

you're doing the right way

excellently never settling for even like 93% you're like a hundred

whatever I'm doing I'm doing it and I'm doing with everything I got.

But...

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This is family life today. Have you ever thought that you might be like a perfectionist? Yes, I think that's a good thing.

Mm. I think we all can have tendencies of that depending on our past.

Oh, so you're going to connect it to your past.

I'm just saying that my family, I mean some of the words were, we are the barons and we are the best.

Oh yeah so don't settle for anything unless you are the best don't come home with

anything other than a first place.

So that tends to drive you and it's always been in the back of my mind.

It's not as much now.

I feel like I'm more free from that,

but man, it still lingers.

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