Is It You?
The R Spot with Iyanla
Shondaland Audio and iHeartPodcasts
4.9 • 908 Ratings
🗓️ 22 November 2023
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
With a second season and a fun new format, Iyanla returns to dive into four caller’s issues in a single episode by asking the question: Is it him, or is it you? Each caller is dealing with something in their relationship: A partner who won’t commit, a lack of trust and even a relationship that might already be dead before it’s even really begun.
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| 0:00.0 | I amla. I've been very open about the fact that I was not always good and making my |
| 0:08.4 | relationships work. I have been divorced three times twice from the same person. In other words, I have seen a lot and failed a lot in my relationships. |
| 0:19.0 | So I am here to share with you what I learned along the way because I did take copious notes. |
| 0:26.4 | Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I-Heart Radio. |
| 0:33.0 | Blessings and greetings. blessings and |
| 0:45.0 | I am Yondla your host, your guide, |
| 0:49.0 | your guide, a teacher for some |
| 0:51.0 | and a soft place to fall as we move through the most common often mind-boggling |
| 0:58.0 | complexities of relationships. What we want is people, as men, as women, as partners is changing. |
| 1:07.0 | And our concepts about relationships is changing. |
| 1:11.1 | Gender roles are changing. Expect roles are changing, expectations are changing, and all of the |
| 1:16.0 | change is showing up in and about relationships. |
| 1:20.5 | I heard a news commentator say the other day, we have gone from crazy to insane. |
| 1:27.0 | And over the past few weeks I've been looking and listening and asking what in the blazing be Jesus are we doing to ourselves and to each other in the name of love and relationships. |
| 1:41.0 | I want to talk to you about what you think the problem is in all of our |
| 1:46.4 | relationships. Why are so many relationships dysfunctional, unhealthy, unsatisfying, |
| 1:55.0 | and broken. |
| 1:57.0 | And is it the relationship, or is it us, The people in the relationship. I ask that question, is it them? Is it us? Is it him? Is it her? Is it me? And what are we going to do about what's going on in our |
| 2:17.5 | relationship? So, beloved, let's get this party started with my first call in the queue. |
| 2:24.3 | Welcome beloved, welcome to the R spot and what is your challenge issue dilemma today? |
| 2:32.0 | Is it him? Is it you and |
| 2:34.8 | and what you're gonna do about it? |
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