I amla, your host, your guide, a teacher for Sam, and a soft place to fall for others.

And I was a miserable failure in my relationships until I love myself enough to be able to share my love with other people.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Grand Rising and welcome to the R spot that place where we look into

dig into, investigate relationships, all things relationships.

I am Yamla, your guide, your host, your support, the facilitator of consciousness that will support us all in creating

more fulfilling loving relationships in every area of our life.

Well, I'm going out on a limb today.

I'm calling forth and talking to the men.

Although I know men always listen to the artspond, I know because when I see them in the Walmart, they tell me.

But today I'm calling them forward and asking them to talk about something that I think may be a little

challenging, difficult, uncomfortable for them.

And that's how do men deal with heartache, heartbreak. How do men deal with

cheating? You know women we talk about it all the time he did this he did that the woman called me I called her the man

called me I called him but how does the average man deal with heartbreak, heartache, betrayal that we call cheating.

As women when we feel that our partner, our loved one, has stepped out on us.

We will cry, we will cuss, we will shop.

We will do a major investigation.

Have you ever done a major investigation just to prove what you already know is true?

You know, following the car, digging in the phone, checking their emails? Women will do that. Do men do that? Women will call

their girlfriends and talk bad about him. Do guys call their friends and talk bad

about her?

We will eat and eat and eat sometimes drink or smoke,

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