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Is It Time To Match His Energy In Spite Of Their Great First Date?

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4.14.4K Ratings

🗓️ 3 November 2022

⏱️ 6 minutes

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They really hit it off after their first date but since then his responses are getting drier and drier! Is it time to match his energy? 🔋 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

The Ferture. So we've been talking about sort of a dating concept, which is matching energy.

0:07.8

Yes. We kind of spontaneously been talking about it over the last couple of weeks, where

0:13.1

we have found it effective when we're doing our texting tutor, when we help a virtual listener

0:17.8

text somebody else, mostly a guy texting a girl on a date or vice versa, that you want to match

0:24.4

their energy in their text exchange. I don't know why we never thought about this before, but as I

0:29.6

was his responses were coming in very just kind of me. And I'm like, we need to match his energy.

0:37.2

Like we just we don't need to come to like to under or to over. We just need to match it.

0:43.4

And I don't know why we've never done that before. It's a really smart strategy in looking

0:48.1

back at it because those first couple of months are dating us. Even when people say I don't want to

0:52.6

play games, oh, I hate games. You got to play a little bit of games, right? So one is wondering

0:58.5

and the other one is wondering, also am I showing too much? Am I not showing enough? So somebody's

1:04.0

got to make that first move. And when they do match their energy, which is what this email is all

1:09.1

about right here. Also, she says, should she give him her energy or not? Because he's like kind of

1:14.6

lukewarm right now. If you want to get in on this one, eight, five, five, birch, show, hey, birch, show, help. Find

1:22.0

it myself in need of your sage unbiased advice. We have never given out either one of them.

1:29.3

You must be talking about another morning. I matched with a guy from another state on Tinder. And

1:35.3

we hit it off right away. Bantra was great. We share a lot of hobbies and common. We just got

1:41.0

along really well. Kristen, we can almost say that they had a connection. Oh my god, a connection.

1:51.9

Fast forward. And we agreed. I'd come visit him. Obviously, this comes with a lot of anxiety. So

1:57.2

we talked about it and agreed. We wouldn't waste each other's time. And he wouldn't waste my money.

2:02.3

We discussed how we were both looking for something more substantial. And both had our fun already.

2:08.0

We agreed not to ghost each other once we met in person and communicate if things weren't working

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