This Hillsong church for some people might be or the mega church that holds a lot of real estate in your life.

What if that wasn't the case? What have you held the real estate? I want reconciliation. I miss my friend.

I miss the teams. I miss the people. Like we still, I still laugh today about the moments we had in New York.

The thing that people don't tell you when church heard happens is it's We still, I still laugh today about the moments we had in New York.

This thing that people don't tell you when church hurt happens is it's like a tsunami of sorts that wipes out everything.

And what I'm saying is, wait, hold on, like experience the pain, experience the hurt,

feel it, like be okay with the sadness and the hurt and the pain of the frustration

because it's real the nights I spent crying and weeping and agony and trauma and like grief like

far out like that is that's real like and an anger and frustration and and you can build on that.

Yeah.

But it might not serve your future.

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