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Hey, Bert Show, I need your help.

A boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years.

He's not very romantic and can be pretty lazy at times.

Moe is this typical foie-taurus?

Yes.

So I'm usually the ones who makes plans for dates and trips.

While I don't mind doing it, sometimes I really wish he would at least try.

I've talked to him about it before, but nothing has really changed.

First two years, we were together, I'd planned parties for my boyfriend's birthday and bought him gifts.

He didn't ask for these things, but I wanted to make him feel special.

During the first two years, my boyfriend did absolutely nothing for me.

It really bothered me that he didn't try to put forth any effort, but I didn't say anything.

Last year, I took a different approach and tried to scale back a bit.

I didn't plan a party, but I did still buy my boyfriend a gift.

Sometimes that same year, we were having a conversation about buying gifts.

And I finally mentioned that if he'd never done anything for my birthday, first, he denied it.

Then he told me money was tight for him during those first two years.

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