Is He Wasting Your Time? (The Top 2 Red Flags to Watch For)
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.7 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 10 August 2020
⏱️ 7 minutes
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Summary
I talk a lot about letting go of the wrong person.
But how do you know if someone is the wrong person? What are the red flags? How can you tell if someone is serious or just stringing you along so that you don’t waste your time?
This episode solves that problem for you.
In this podcast, I add a distinction that I’ve never said before and I don’t think you will have ever thought about… Let me know what you think once you’ve heard it, friend.
Much love.
P.S. For all the sh*t you’re going through right now that others don’t know about, I love you and I’m with you.
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| 0:00.0 | Well, hello everyone, whether you are single in a relationship, not |
| 0:29.6 | really sure if you're in a relationship. Here we are back with the Love Life podcast. I am your host, |
| 0:37.0 | Stephen Hussey, and guess what we're talking about today. We're talking about mixed signals. |
| 0:47.3 | When someone's actions and their words don't quite align and they leave you not really sure which one |
| 0:55.9 | to believe. And what Matthew shows in this clip I'm going to jump to is that this is a little |
| 1:03.9 | more complicated than it can seem. The traditional advices look at actions, not words, but sometimes |
| 1:12.4 | someone's actions can actually be quite romantic and sweep you off your feet, but their words |
| 1:20.0 | might tell you that they don't have long-term intentions. So let's jump over to Mr Matthew |
| 1:27.6 | Hussey to talk about what to do when this happens. And just before I do that, I will remind you |
| 1:35.6 | please do keep sending in your emails to podcastatmathuhussey.com. We are reading some out on the |
| 1:44.4 | next show and if you have any particular comments on this episode, I'd love to bookmark them |
| 1:50.3 | and maybe we can read some out on another one. So yeah, it's great hearing all your stories, |
| 1:56.6 | hearing your experiences and again, the more short and concise and crisp you make those emails |
| 2:02.9 | to more likely is I can either get to them or perhaps read a question on an episode. All right, |
| 2:11.7 | over to Matt. I think that every video I have ever done could be looked at not simply through |
| 2:17.0 | the lens of dating and relationships, but through the lens of time. The idea of not suffering for |
| 2:22.7 | longer than we need to, not spending longer with the wrong person than we need to, not repeating |
| 2:28.2 | the same mistakes that are costly in terms of time. In fact, one of the main questions I get from |
| 2:33.0 | people is how do I read someone's intentions? How do I know if they're just stringing me along? |
| 2:37.5 | How do I know if this person is wasting my time? I recently posted something across all of my |
| 2:42.2 | social media saying, if you want to know someone's intentions, watch their actions, not their words |
| 2:49.6 | because actions have a far harder time lying. Now, someone replied challenging this principle |
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