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Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

Is Chemistry a Red Flag?

Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

Kim Anami

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Love, Sex, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Tantra

4.41.5K Ratings

🗓️ 24 October 2025

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"?

Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red flag! 

Ridiculous. Tell me you’ve never had life-changing sex before without telling me. 

Chemistry is the reaction. The friction, the spark. You need it in order to create any kind of growth.

“Meh” isn’t chemistry and “meh” isn’t going to change your life.


In today’s episode: 

  • What is chemistry? 
  • Why it’s essential in every important relationship in your life  
  • When chemistry actually can be a red flag 
  • Intensity and passion vs. “calm” in relationship 
  • Safety and risk in relationship: no risk, no reward? 
  • The ideal conditions for relationship alchemy 
  • “But we’re such good buddies! We make such good partners!” Yeah, but are you fucking each other? Ever?
  • The root causes of reproductive issues 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Orgasmic Enlightenment, where the sexual and spiritual come together.

0:06.7

I'm Kimanami and I'm a holistic sex and relationship coat and a vaginal weightlifter.

0:12.9

In this show, we explore all things intimate.

0:15.8

I believe that our sexual energy is life force, creative energy and we can use it to shape our worlds

0:22.9

strengthen our relationships and self-actualize. I blend the most avant-garde information from

0:29.8

neuroscience, ancient sexual practices like tantra and Taoism to renegade wellness modalities to

0:36.4

show you how to create gourmet sex in your

0:40.0

lives. Come one, come all. Is chemistry a red flag? How important is chemistry? Chemistry beckons you to

0:52.4

come closer and come harder. Lately, I've heard some people say that

0:59.3

chemistry is dangerous, toxic, run away. So let's talk about this. For starters, what is chemistry?

1:09.6

Chemistry is the weak in the knees, tingle in your loins, lighting

1:14.4

up that takes place in you when you are drawn to someone or something. Chemistry says, hey, I have

1:22.1

something for you right over here. Carl Young says, the meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances.

1:33.7

If there is any reaction, both are transformed.

1:37.9

Chemistry is the reaction.

1:40.7

The friction, the spark, you need it in order to create any kind of growth.

1:48.3

Mech isn't chemistry and meh isn't going to change your life. If you've chosen meh,

1:54.8

then you've chosen to play it safe. You say that you and your partner are such good buddies.

2:00.7

There's more to relationships than

2:02.3

just sex and try to convince yourself that it's okay you haven't had sex in a month or a year

2:09.5

or eight years. I'm not buying it. Deep down, neither are you. Which is why you now say that you have a low libido or there are cysts

2:20.3

growing on your ovaries or you prematurely ejaculate. You're all avoiding the big bang. The life-changing

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