Orgasmic Enlightenment, where the sexual and spiritual come together.

I'm Kimanami and I'm a holistic sex and relationship coat and a vaginal weightlifter.

In this show, we explore all things intimate.

I believe that our sexual energy is life force, creative energy and we can use it to shape our worlds

strengthen our relationships and self-actualize. I blend the most avant-garde information from

neuroscience, ancient sexual practices like tantra and Taoism to renegade wellness modalities to

show you how to create gourmet sex in your

lives. Come one, come all. Should love feel safe? On the heels of my last podcast talking about

intense chemistry and whether it's a green flag or a red flag.

Today I want to talk specifically about the idea that relationships ought to be safe.

I hear this word tossed around a lot right now in the context of relationships.

In the wake of everyone talking about nervous system, rewiring, and how safety is the

holy grail we all ought to apparently be looking for, I have some thoughts.

The idea seems to be that your partner and your relationship ought to make you feel safe.

You feel safe in their presence.

You feel safe to open up.

And while I sort of see what they're getting at, the reality is that life and especially love is not safe.

Ever.

Not really.

Not actually. How can you be safe when you open yourself up you let your

guard down and you let someone in you can make a good educated and maybe logical decision and in the

end you could still get screwed.

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