Invisible Loyalties (2018 Rerun)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 23 December 2023
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October 17, 2018
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| 0:00.0 | So, Berto, I sent out a survey to all the patrons of the podcast asking them what sort of deep dives they wanted me or us to do. |
| 0:18.4 | And the top two were narcissistic personality disorder and suicide and I have |
| 0:26.1 | delivered on those deep dives right the narcissistic episode I believe was 11 12 hours |
| 0:33.4 | or something the suicide episode was 12 or 13 hours And so I'm working my way through the list. |
| 0:41.3 | And I want the third thing is perfectionism, I believe. So I feel like I need to be perfectionist |
| 0:47.3 | about that one. And spend six years on that one. Right. But further down the list is this concept |
| 0:52.7 | called invisible loyalties. So I thought we would do an |
| 0:57.2 | episode in which we analyze you and your life to see what sort of things you have that we might |
| 1:05.1 | term as an invisible loyalty. What do you say? Yeah, let's do it. This is the Psychology in Seattle |
| 1:10.6 | podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Kirkonda. I'm a therapist and a professor. My name is Umberto Castaneda. I bottle kombucha. So this, that was just lazy because you're just looking at kombucha. This isn't kombucha. Oh, it's not? No, this is a little tea with blood orange and it's a herbal infusion. See? This is not my product. I do not drink my |
| 1:30.0 | own product. Cambochell will kill you. Yeah. So invisible loyalties. So let me just explain |
| 1:35.7 | the concept before we get into analyzing Uberto and feel free to ask questions as we go here. |
| 1:43.7 | The concept of invisible loyalties was developed by a theorist in family therapy. |
| 1:51.2 | His name is Ivan Brava. |
| 1:54.5 | Drago. |
| 1:55.6 | Yeah, some very unpronounceable, I think Hungarian last name, dash, nage. |
| 2:03.7 | It's spelled naggy, N-A-G-Y. |
| 2:07.5 | And everyone in my business, we just refer to him as nage. |
| 2:10.6 | Nage. |
| 2:11.0 | Because it's easier to pronounce and remember. |
| 2:15.5 | The Invisible Loyalties concept was one of his most famous concepts. |
| 2:19.7 | He lived from 1920 until 2007. He had a book in the 1970s titled Invisible Loyalties, and it |
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