Se*ual consumption, VR therapy, and narcissistic clients
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 22 December 2023
⏱️ 78 minutes
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00:00 New PIS merch
00:45 Do you have advice for feeling self-conscious during sex?
10:45 Is "I'm sorry you feel that way" an apology?
14:00 OPP
15:29 Is VR therapy viable?
38:39 OPP 2
40:03 How can I tell if it's BPD or depression?
47:13 Are there alternatives for therapy?
52:42 Can you overcome perfectionism with gifts?
57:48 Is fear normal in therapy?
1:04:51 What impact does censoring language on social media have?
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December 22, 2023
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob we have a new merch item that the listeners can buy and I just unveiled it to you. |
| 0:07.6 | It is a shirt and I suppose you get a mug and all the other various things and the merch is everybody loves Bob. |
| 0:17.0 | Yeah. How do you feel about it? I think it's a riot. It's really funny. I kind of want to wear it and think I should and at the same time. |
| 0:25.0 | Well as I was telling you I think you are the perfect person that would be able to pull off a shirt like this because no one thinks of you as being narcissistic and also you like a |
| 0:35.2 | good joke shirt I do yeah so I think you can wear your own shirt that says |
| 0:40.1 | everybody loves Bob I wonder what Colleen's going to say. |
| 0:43.0 | Jens probably. |
| 0:44.0 | All right, emails. Patron May says, I notice that I am unable to let go and just enjoy myself in a sexual setting. I feel |
| 0:56.3 | uncomfortable being that vulnerable. I feel uncomfortable that someone cares for my |
| 1:01.1 | pleasure. I feel uncomfortable receiving the pleasure of being focused on. Any advice on that? |
| 1:07.6 | Thank you so much. By the way, these were all the questions that were submitted to you Bob. So what sort of answer to you have to that? |
| 1:16.5 | I can relate. Sexual pleasure is like really conspicuous consumption, you know, like there it is, center stage, right between you and whoever you're with, and |
| 1:27.0 | makes me very self-conscious too. |
| 1:29.6 | I wish I had good advice. |
| 1:31.9 | I actually don't. Have you ever had that feeling? |
| 1:35.2 | Oh, where you were able to conspicuously consume? What was it? Conspicuous |
| 1:42.2 | consumption? |
| 1:42.8 | Yeah. |
| 1:43.8 | Yeah. |
| 1:44.8 | Have you ever had that feeling where you're actually indulging? |
| 1:46.8 | Yeah, usually if I'm drunk, that helps. |
| 1:52.3 | And maybe in my earliest, you know, days, my early 20s or whatever, I probably didn't have as |
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