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Inner Work: A Spiritual Growth Podcast

Inner Work 031: Female Competition, Insecurity, and Self-Worth

Inner Work: A Spiritual Growth Podcast

Josephine Hardman

Education, Spirituality, Religion & Spirituality, Self-improvement

4.9619 Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2018

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

Ever feel like you're not good enough or you're not *doing* enough? That other women are more successful, smarter, more creative, more beautiful, more accomplished, more effortless? Yes, me too! We've all been there, either in our personal or professional lives (or both).

This episode delves deeply into this delicate subject of female competition, insecurity, and self-worth. I address what's really happening when your feelings of inadequacy, unworthiness, insecurity, and not-good-enoughness are triggered when you witness another person's success or milestone. We'll also explore how to look at this through a spiritual lens so we can celebrate and redefine other women's success as fuel for our own positive momentum. Join me!

RESOURCES:

Tara Mohr's book is Playing Big: Practical Wisdom for Women Who Want to Speak Up, Create, and Lead

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello, dear listeners and welcome to Inner Work of Spiritual Growth podcast.

0:07.8

I'm your host, Josephine, a second-generation intuitive healer and English PhD, who taught college

0:14.0

for nine years before transitioning to spiritual work full-time.

0:18.2

I now specialize in helping type A and highly sensitive women, including empaths,

0:23.6

let go of perfectionism, release shame, and transform their inner critics into inner allies.

0:30.6

To find out more or join the tribe, visit www.purefieldhealing.com or contact me directly at purefield healing at gmail.com.

0:43.2

As always, those links will be in the show notes.

0:46.6

And now, on to the show.

0:50.1

Hi, and welcome to the podcast.

0:52.5

Today we're getting right into this episode on female competition, insecurity, and self-worth.

1:00.3

So let me set the scene for you. You're going about your day, you're blissfully happy, or at least, you know, you're experiencing a solid level of happiness. And then, bam.

1:11.5

You read a post on social media, maybe on Instagram,

1:15.7

or you see someone on Facebook recommending someone else's blog,

1:19.6

or you see that someone who does something similar to your work,

1:24.0

say another tarot reader or an intuitive coach or a wellness coach has been featured on one of your

1:30.2

favorite podcasts and then the nausea sets in you feel sick to your stomach you feel as though you've been

1:38.4

punched this wave of nauseatingly warm sticky insecurity rises up through your stomach and you need to sit down.

1:48.0

Your mind starts racing. How come this other person was featured and you weren't?

1:53.0

How come she has achieved this milestone or this success and you haven't?

1:59.0

What are you doing wrong? So your inner critic starts to chime in.

2:05.0

You're not good enough. You're not doing enough. Everyone else is better than you. You have nothing

2:10.9

original, worthwhile, or useful to say. You are a failure. You are nothing. And then you feel shitty for the rest of the day.

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