Initiating Sex After a Dry Spell

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 7 March 2025

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered! Today’s sexual concerns are especially relatable: I’m willing to bet you’ve experienced one of these yourself. Let’s start with orgasms. When you can only get off in one very specific position, how can you retrain your body and mind? I give you tips on switching up your technique. Next: coming out of a sexual dry spell, how do you learn to initiate again? I help you collaborate with your partner. When you’re always a top (the more dominant one during sex), how can you tell your partner that you’d like to bottom (be more submissive) occasionally? I walk you through that conversation. Finally, when your spouse has next to zero interest in sex, what now? I offer insights on changing your relationship patterns to experience mutual pleasure and compatibility. In this episode, you’ll learn: The secret to orgasming in any position (without wrecking your calves). How to bring back the heat after a dry spell—without the pressure. The power move that gets your partner to switch things up in bed. Show Notes: How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life in 2025- Sign up for my FREE masterclass today! Try Just Thrive Probiotic Today! Go to justhrivehealth.com and use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 20% off your order! Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to Zocdoc.com/EMILY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Nobody does selling better than Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/swe Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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0:00.0	I think if you talk to him on your next date night and say, babe, I think I'm ready done,
0:07.0	I can't wait, my body, my doctor says I'm good.
0:09.0	I think that we should do it.
0:10.0	Like, what do you think?
0:11.0	I mean, let him initiate that.
0:12.0	Just let him know that you're ready for business and have him open up so maybe you don't have to put all the pressure on yourself that you have to initiate and all of a sudden it's going to be a big reveal and he's going to be like, are you sure? Are you ready? Talk to him about it outside the bedroom.
0:25.3	Yeah. May you have a special date night. Go away for a night. Get a hotel room for a night. Do something
0:28.7	like that. You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you
0:34.9	prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
0:39.3	We receive so many wonderful voicemail questions on our hotline, and I'm arranging more of them
0:43.6	in today's Hotline Calls episode with my wonderful producer, Erica.
0:48.5	Today, we're answering your questions on, what to do if you can only orgasm in one position,
0:53.4	how to initiate sex after a dry spell, how to bottom if you can only orgasm in one position, how to initiate sex after a dry spell,
0:56.0	how to bottom if you're usually on top, and what to do when your partner doesn't seem to care
1:00.1	about their sexual pleasure.
1:01.6	And remember, if you want to leave a voicemail with your question, please do so.
1:05.2	Call my hotline 559-5-9-2-5-7-39.
1:07.7	Or 559-8255739. You can also leave me your questions or message me at sex withemly.com slash ask
1:15.1	Emily.
1:15.6	Always include your name, your age, where you live and how you listen to the show.
1:19.6	And you can change your name or choose to remain anonymous.
1:22.1	It's all good.
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