Hotline Calls: Hook-Ups & Opening Up

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 4 March 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

When you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open the relationship? What does it mean when they don’t finish during sex? In today’s Hotline Calls episode, I’m taking all your pressing sex questions. First, when you want to bring sex toys and lube into the bedroom, but your partner is firmly opposed…what now? I offer communication tips to help bring down defenses. Next, when you’re loving sex with your partner but they never orgasm, is that a cause for concern? I talk about delayed ejaculation and why it happens. We also get into non-monogamy: when you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open up the relationship? Or is a different, deeper conversation needed? Finally, when you’re happily hooking up, how do you keep casual sex from turning into serious relationships? In this episode, you’ll learn: Why performative sex is killing your pleasure—and how to stop. How to ditch “porn mode” and tap into real turn-ons. The secret to being fully present (and having better orgasms). Show Notes: To get 6 bottles of wine for $39.99, head to NakedWines.com/SWE and use code SWE for both the code AND PASSWORD. Description automatically generatedSex New Paperback Cover Now! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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0:00.0	Stay clear, stay consistent with everybody you're dating and it's going to be a lot easier
0:07.6	for you too once you start to really embody this person that you're becoming and clearly stating
0:12.5	your boundaries and what you want, you're going to find that the right relationships are going to
0:16.5	show up and you're going to be able to learn how to navigate them with a consenting partner
0:20.7	who wants the same things. Exactly. And just as you said, being clear about your intentions,
0:25.6	it does not make you an asshole. It just makes you a great communicator. Yeah, which is really,
0:30.4	really sexy. Really sexy. You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to
0:37.0	help you prioritize your pleasure
0:38.5	and liberate the conversation around sex. We received so many wonderful and interesting
0:44.3	voicemail questions on our hotline and I thought I would love to start answering more of them
0:49.1	in some dedicated hotline call episodes. And while I love answering your questions myself, I'm so excited to bring
0:56.3	in my fabulous producer, Erica. She's going to help me answer your questions. She's worked with me
1:01.9	for several years. She's got a great take on this. She knows her stuff. Today, we're answering
1:06.5	your questions on how to introduce toys and loop into the bedroom, how to keep hookups casual when
1:11.6	they usually turn serious, frustrations and insecurities when your partner never ejaculates,
1:16.8	and lack of desire to have sex with your partner. And if you want to leave a voicemail with
1:20.6	your question, please do. Call our hotline 559-2-9-2-5-7-39. You can also leave me your questions or message me at sex
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