Matthew Hasey here with Love Life. I am super excited about today's show because we have

a great topic to discuss. But first I have a question for you. If I told you there were

five things you could say to get a man positively addicted to you, would you try them? If the

answer is yes, then be sure to listen until the end of today's show because I'm going

to tell you how you can get your hands on those five magic phrases. Now let's get to

the episode. I was having a conversation recently with someone very dear to me who expressed

that she didn't feel educated enough. She didn't feel like she was smart. And in the

moment was talking about this as a major insecurity that she had. And I suddenly thought of all

the different people in the world who have different insecurities about what they don't

have in life, what they lacked growing up in her case. She felt like she really didn't

take education seriously for a long time. And she dropped out of school early and went

to work very early. And as a result, feels like she never really was educated in the way

that a lot of her peers were. And feels self-conscious when the topic of conversation gets

onto anything that feels intellectual to her. She either switches off or kind of runs

and hides, changes the subject. She feels self-conscious. I was fascinated when she told

me this because this person is one of the most street-wise, savvy individuals that I know.

And she's also someone that because of what she's been through in her life is one of the

most emotionally fit and strong people that I know. So she has amazing advantages which

she's not focusing on when she's focusing on what she doesn't have that other people

have. Well, you have to remember, one layer of wisdom, I believe, is understanding what

unique advantage is our life has given us. Now, they're not necessarily the same as the

advantage that the person that we're now friends with got when they were growing up. Different

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