If you've tried everything to stop the hurtful behavior, what's next?
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.6 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 21 November 2020
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
You've tried talking with them, expressing your hurt or unhappiness, but they still don't seem to want to change their behavior. If you've done what you can, what is the next step? Emotionally abusive behavior is not something you should live with, but many do. It might be time to consider all your options.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior. |
| 0:07.4 | You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. |
| 0:10.9 | That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior so that you keep your power and your sanity. |
| 0:18.6 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 0:30.6 | Thank you. power and your sanity. I'm your host, Paul Koliani. Thanks for joining me. |
| 0:32.6 | Welcome to love and abuse. |
| 0:34.7 | All the information on this podcast is meant for educational purposes only. |
| 0:38.7 | Always consult a professional for your mental health and well-being and always pick your battles wisely. |
| 0:45.1 | I think we know what that means now. |
| 0:47.1 | Be careful who we pick our battles with. |
| 0:50.1 | And today I'm going to talk about a message that somebody sent me. |
| 0:54.0 | They're looking for information on identifying the behavioral patterns of someone that's been emotionally abused. |
| 1:01.0 | They wrote, the person I care for deeply was emotionally abused as a child and I'm trying to learn how to support and understand her. |
| 1:09.0 | Sometimes it seems like I am doing everything wrong, |
| 1:13.3 | and then I realize I am triggering something |
| 1:15.2 | that makes her think I am becoming the abuser. |
| 1:18.8 | I quickly retreat from these situations, |
| 1:21.0 | but I am also aware that she can become, |
| 1:23.3 | or quickly become the abuser, |
| 1:24.9 | and then I am changing myself to fix her situation. |
| 1:28.3 | I appreciate all the time you take to educate the online community and thank you for being you. |
| 1:34.3 | Wow, thank you so much for that last comment and this is a great question, but I may not have the answer you're looking for, but I will give you my thoughts on this. |
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