Welcome back guys to part two of this incredible episode with My Girl, the expert on boundaries

and living. You're fulfilled, non-codependent, toxic-free life, Terry Cold. Now, if you're

recovering from codependency and starting to recognise your anxious attachment styles in past

or actually in present relationships after part one, then

my girls, stay tuned.

So whether you need stronger boundaries with others or need to check yourself with your own

boundaries, then homie, this conversation is so jam-packed with gems that you're going to

want a part three.

So let's just dive in right now to part two with the boundary boss herself,

Terry Cole on Women of Impact with me, your host, Lisa Bigview. So what's the difference

then, let's say in situations like that, where some people you give them the benefit of the doubt

versus, oh no, you actually need to have the doubt here. Yes.

I think, again, we are taking an inventory and we are paying attention and we are being awake.

We're not being seduced by their behavior to be asleep.

We are awake and paying attention to what they're doing and what they're saying.

That is really important.

So if they are, it depends on what the, what are they doing, like what is their behavior? If they're not following through, right? Because we kind of switched

gears into narcissism and looking into that stuff. This is really, with narcissism, this is

a different thing to pay attention to. because you're really talking about people who can be very emotionally dangerous and incredibly charming.

That's why it's called love bombing.

That's what it feels like.

You don't even have time to come up for air and to be like, wait a minute, how do I feel about this? Did I just plan a trip to wherever? Like, am I going to Paris with this person? Like, what is happening, even though it's exciting. So what I do, I invite you, if you're in a situation like this, or you've had this experience, to really think about what were the red flags that you ignored?

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