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If He’s Love Bombing You, HEAR THIS: How to Stop Falling For Manipulation Disguised as Romance | Terri Cole PT 1 (Fan Fav)

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Relationships, Education, Society & Culture

4.8700 Ratings

🗓️ 26 December 2025

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

This is a fan fav episode. What up homies! Lisa Bilyeu here. If you’ve ever wondered if his romantic gestures were just a ploy to trap you, this conversation with Terri Cole is just what you need. In today’s powerful two-part episode of Women of Impact with the insightful Terri Cole, we expose the love bombers and boundary manipulators for what they are. Their tactics of 'unearned intimacy' have not earned your time, your attention or love. As we dive into how they manipulate emotions, paint B.S. visions of a future together you really want to hear just to gain control, I hope you’re taking notes. It's time to have your own back and demand truth in action. Remember, manipulation isn't about love, it's about power. Let's arm ourselves with knowledge and kick these red flags to the curb.  “Our job is to have our own back. Our job is to go, ‘I can count on me to not people-please myself out of my own integrity.’” -Terri Cole If you’re dealing with any kind of abuse and feel unsafe in your relationship, please check out Terri’s podcast episode, How to Safely Leave An Abusive Relationship: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/safely-leave-abusive-relationship/⁠  And… Don’t forget to check out Terri’s latest Boundary Boss Workbook: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Workbook-Strategies-Over-Giving/dp/1649631421⁠  Original air date: 11-15-2023 Follow Terri Cole: Website: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/⁠  Podcast: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/podcast/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/terricole/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hi, just leave and work now. Sorry, it's a bit loud.

0:03.4

Um, basically, so I was thinking we could get Macies tonight. Had a big Mac on my mind all day, and delivery fee on the app is now from 99P. So you win? Of course you are. Love you. Bye! Exclusively on the McDonald's app. 18 plus, service fee and small order fee may apply. Participating restaurants. Serving times and teas and seas apply. Welcome to Paddy's Pizzeriere. Your blind dates is already at the table and here she is. Cousin Brenda, what are you doing here? You're married anyway. Substitution brought to you by Paddy Power. Cousin' Brenda makes me for Beth, the office crush. Oh, get in! You might not always pick the right starter, but your sub can still deliver,

0:39.3

because with Paddy's super sub, your bet rolls over to the player coming on. Patti power.

0:43.4

Valid on selected leagues and markets only. Pre-match and in-play bets on qualifying player outcome

0:46.7

selections only. Tis and Clusions apply. 18 plus scumannware. Dot. What up, my homie.

0:51.2

Okay, welcome to another power-packed episode of Women in Impact with me, your host, Lisa Billu.

0:56.7

Now, if you have a weak spot for your closest homies or any relationships in your life, like me and many of us,

1:02.2

it can actually become really freaking easy to overlook the 100 red flags and excuse the shit behavior,

1:09.0

all in the name of love. Well, my homie, enough is freaking

1:14.5

enough. Now guys, we cannot be complacent with being manipulated and disrespected and to make

1:20.5

sure that we're able to spot that manipulation and have the right boundaries in place for others

1:25.8

and ourselves. Well, my girl, Terry Cole, the boundary boss

1:29.9

herself, is here with me today for an exciting two-part episode with so many gems you want to take

1:36.8

notes and keep them going. Now this episode is about how to actually be your boss to the

1:43.3

freaking walls fully expressed self,

1:45.6

who understands the power of your boundaries and when and how to use them in any relationship,

1:51.6

whether that's with a partner or a family member or a friend or a work colleague.

1:56.7

It's all the same.

1:58.1

Boundaries are boundaries and they take the confidence and the skills

2:01.6

to actually set them and stick to them. Now, make sure you check out part two of this powerful

2:07.5

conversation tomorrow so you don't miss any other brilliant freaking strategies with the Boundary

2:12.9

boss herself, Terry Cole.

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