Identity and Toy Story and The Calluses We Create | After Hours With Amanda Ep. 19
After Hours With Amanda
After Hours With Amanda
5.0 • 697 Ratings
🗓️ 13 May 2021
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of After Hours With Amanda, I’m talking about identity, growing up, and the pressure we put on kids to know who they are going to be before they have even had time to live.
This one started with Toy Story 3, Andy leaving Woody, and one of my girls realizing that maybe Andy was scared too. From there, I get into college pressure, career day, motherhood, therapy, emotional calluses, and why kids are not part of a parent’s resume.
They are already who they are. We just get to help them discover what brings them joy.
00:00 We’re Back And Singing Already
00:19 Current Playlist Rabbit Trail
02:14 Welcome To After Hours With Amanda
02:51 The Pressure To Know Your Whole Life
03:27 Toy Story 3 And Growing Up
04:46 What If Andy Was Scared Too?
06:09 What Do You Want To Be?
07:04 They Are Already Who They Are
07:56 Paige, Rainbows, And Creativity
09:08 Identity Is Not A Career
10:14 Finding Worth Beyond Achievement
12:13 College Pressure And Test Scores
13:12 You Are Allowed To Change
14:20 Molly, Woody, And Safe Places
16:46 Emotional Calluses
18:36 Teens, Trust, And Suppression
20:10 Driving Away Without Woody
23:04 Helping Kids Find What They Love
24:23 Motherhood Is A Limb Of Life
26:41 Mr. Rogers And Repair
31:39 Therapy And Internal Bleeding
35:21 Boundaries As Emotional Physical Therapy
36:33 Home As A Safe Place
39:32 Kids Are Not A Parent’s Resume
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | And just like that, we're back. |
| 0:01.8 | Oh, we're back. |
| 0:04.2 | You know that song, how's it go? |
| 0:06.7 | Lamb Jam back again. |
| 0:08.5 | Let's begin, put it on, put it out. |
| 0:10.2 | Everybody get up. |
| 0:11.6 | I don't think it's space jam. |
| 0:13.3 | I'm going to, you know what? |
| 0:14.1 | I'm going to retract that. |
| 0:15.3 | I do not think that song is space jam. |
| 0:17.1 | What is that song? |
| 0:18.5 | I cannot think of it. But can we talk about a song right now that is a |
| 0:21.1 | straight jam? Follow you. Okay. If you don't own that song right now, |
| 0:27.2 | mm-mm. Top songs I'm listening to right now, Kings and Queens, Ava Max, rain on me, |
| 0:33.1 | the Ari Gaga combination with that is fire. Um. Follow you by Imagine Dragons. Hello. Good to be |
| 0:43.4 | alive. Megan Trainor. These are my like psych me up songs that I'm listening to right now that get me |
| 0:49.2 | just in the groove and the mood. Stevie wonders, I just called to say I love you. Is that not like a little like, |
| 0:56.9 | it just feels kind of like vacationy. You know what I mean? Obviously, um, from the karate kid, |
| 1:03.5 | the song, you're the best. One of my favorite jams. Just write these down, you guys, for the playlist. |
| 1:09.5 | Um, buyers by Jordan St. Crierrier i can never say the last name um |
| 1:15.0 | next to me by jordan philees just the two of us grover washington junior coming in hot with that |
| 1:20.9 | classic but these are the songs that i've got and then plastic carts by myly cyrus like hello um |
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