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If you've been married any length of time, say a week or more, you've probably had a situation where there was a misunderstanding between the two of you.

Whenever that happens, though, it's good to remember you're still on the same team.

I'm John Fuller, joined by my friends and colleagues, Greg and Aaron Smalley.

They lead the focus on the family marriage department,

and they had a great conversation with Focus President Jim Daly and his wife, Gene,

where they talked about this very thing. It happened while they were moving. Let's listen in.

You talk about this, why couples need to choose kind of who is going to win when they get into that argument.

You know, when you're getting into a little discussion, I've had people, you know, text us and say,

if you're Christian, you shouldn't argue.

Okay, but, you know, the real world is you do come to some differences.

But I like that idea thinking through who's going to win here.

And I know your answer, obviously.

But sometimes stopping to think that through in the middle of emotions is a little hard.

But explain who wins.

Yeah.

Well, oftentimes we'll oppose our spouse.

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