I Spoke to My Partner’s Mistress & This Is What She Told Me ft Dateable Podcast

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 14.5K Ratings

🗓️ 19 September 2025

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Jared and Jordana are joined this week by Dateable podcast hosts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu on U Up? Julie opens up about her journey as a self-proclaimed “type A dater” and how letting go of control ultimately led her to the right partner. She was just married last Saturday, with Yue officiating the wedding. Yue shares the shocking story of discovering her long-term boyfriend was cheating while she was writing a dating book, and how interviewing “the other woman” on their podcast became one of the most therapeutic experiences of her life. They also play “Icky or Picky: Fashion Edition,” debating whether showing up underdressed to a fancy restaurant is an ick or just being picky. Check out more on Dateable here 👉 Take the ⁠Dating Archetype Quiz⁠, check out ⁠How to Be Dateable⁠, and listen to ⁠“The Other Woman”⁠ episode too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello and welcome back to the Friday feels episode of the UF podcast.
0:06.1	I'm Jordana Abraham.
0:07.7	And I am Jared Fried.
0:10.1	It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana, but it is especially good to be here
0:14.4	with our two special guests.
0:15.9	They are the co-hosts of the datable podcast.
0:18.9	They are the co-authors of the How to Be Datable book, which is out.
0:23.9	It's out right now.
0:26.5	And you can go buy it in the link.
0:28.2	And I'm sure the link is in the bio of this episode on wherever you're watching or listening.
0:35.1	Thank you guys for coming on.
0:36.9	We are joined by Julie Craftwick and UAZoo Thank you guys for coming on. We are joined by Julie
0:38.3	Craftwick and UAZoo. Thank you for coming on. Thank you for having us. Thanks for having us.
0:44.6	Good to see you both. It's been years. It's been years. We've both been on your shows.
0:50.3	We've, you guys have been here. It's great to see you guys again. It is, how are you?
0:56.1	What's going on?
0:57.5	What's, what's, and Julie, congratulations.
0:59.6	You were just recently married last weekend.
1:02.4	Thank you.
1:04.3	And UA was my officiant.
1:06.2	Yes.
1:06.5	For the wedding.
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