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enough you um subject I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired dear Steven

Shirley I've been with my boyfriend for five years he's 30 years old and I'm

28 since a pandemic hit he's been drinking a lot at first it was out of

boredom to pass the time and I didn't mind it because it was just beer now he's

drinking at least 30 beers a week and our recycling bin stays full of beer

cans each week he swapped out his coffee and bagel for a beer before he had

to work he needs it to jumpstart his day as he says he's gone back to work a lot

under the influence so I pray it doesn't get him fired because he's on probation

and he has to keep a job I asked his father to come talk to him but they drink

beer together during the conversation about him drinking too much I am at the

end of my rope with this man and I gave him an ultimatum that I will not

marry him if he can't control his drinking if he's had a lot to drink he snores

very loudly and I have to sleep on the couch when he doesn't get enough sleep

he's drunk and cranky and picks fights over stupid things I'm tired of

avoiding him in our tired tiny apartment and his mom called him the other day

and she could tell he was drunk and she went off on him he started crying and

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