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All right ladies and gentlemen it is time for the strawberry letter with my great friend

Shirley Strong.

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Thank you my good friend, junior subject, does he still have feelings for her?

Do you see even Shirley?

My husband and I have been together for almost 20 years.

When we first started dating there was a female friend quote unquote that was in his circle

of friends.

I don't think I didn't think anything of it for a while but there were red flags that kept

kept just popping up and there was a certain vibe that I kept picking up whenever they

were in the same space.

Eventually I asked him if they had ever had any type of intimate relationship and he denied

any dealings with her.

He said they've always been just friends.

Years of the same type of vibes or energy between them made me ask again if anything ever

went down between them and again he denied it.

I know my husband and I could sense he was lying.

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