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subject she gives a great performance do Steven Shirley I've been dating a

very attractive woman with the perfect body and beautiful brown skin I met her

at a gym and she asked me out which I loved because she is not afraid to go

after something if she wants it we have been dating for a little over a month

and we finally had sex over the Labor Day holiday I wasn't expecting the

performance I got she's very athletic and it was hard to keep up with her in the

bedroom I was given all kinds of instructions and she was very dominant I tried

to get into it and each time I got so distracted by her demands I couldn't

perform I was intimidated finally after it was over we went on to my patio and

had a glass of wine she started analyzing the encounter and saying what could

have been better and what we needed to work on I felt like I was back in college

playing football and going over the game footage and critiquing it I found

myself apologizing to her and telling her I do better next time a few days later

we had a few drinks and she started to get me in the mood she said she'd do

all of the work since I was tipsy I thought she was too but she wasn't I got

scared I'm a 42 year old grown man and I've never been afraid of any woman in

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