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Dear Young Married Couple

I just don't UNDERSTAND my spouse!

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Sexuality, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.8872 Ratings

🗓️ 21 July 2020

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

In last week's episode, we shared some tips for speaking about difficult topics like SEX and MONEY. This week, we're sharing some tips for how to listen and understand when your spouse does bring something up.   Here's the link to our upcoming live VIRTUAL MARRIAGE RETREAT: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/1/n6075a7    Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com   P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks that we created for you and your spouse: FOUNDATIONS: https://amzn.to/2RaXF7g SEXPECTATIONS: https://amzn.to/2GbVMRA REALIZATIONS: https://amzn.to/3brNTWh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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dear young merry couple podcast today we're going to talk about what to do when I just don't get my spouse.

0:38.6

And this comes up often in counseling. It comes up often in our DMs and people will make

0:47.0

sentiments like this. Like I just don't get her or I just don't get him. I can't get through

0:52.1

to him. And so we're here to talk to you about what to say or what to do when you just don't get your spouse.

1:00.1

And first of all, let's just start off by saying that's pretty normal, I think.

1:04.3

Yes.

1:04.9

And it's a continual learning process.

1:07.8

We are two completely different human beings, one, two, biologically very, very different

1:14.3

with different hormones going on, different brains, different brain chemistry.

1:19.0

So there's so much going on.

1:20.7

We are different.

1:21.4

We react to situations differently.

1:23.2

We have different needs.

1:24.9

And so in all of this, sometimes we don't get it. And getting it is very

1:31.3

important for us because once we start to get it, we start to understand the other person

1:38.4

better or we feel that we're understood or they feel our pain. So there's more connection

1:43.9

being made. And we all want intimate connection or they feel our pain. So there's more connection being made.

1:44.7

And we all want intimate connection. That's our deepest desire is to be fully known and fully

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