Welcome back to Women of Impact, alright, in part 1 we've ricked in, ripped the band aid off, we talked about what lying looks like and how to trust your instincts. But now it's time to actually take it into a deeper, way more incredible depth than we've ever gone before, with the former Department of Defense interrogator, Lena Sisko. Because it's just not enough to know when something's off. What are you actually gonna do about it? Are you just gonna take it even when you see the signs? Or are you gonna finally break that damn cycle? Set new boundaries and stop abandoning yourself for someone else's damn comfort. Or will you keep just playing small and just avoid the conflict? Well, let me tell ya, you're not gonna do that, not here, not on my watch and not on women of impact. Because this half is everything. In this episode, we're digging into the unconscious biases that keep us all trapped and how they sabotage our relationships, our judgments and our damn self worth. Guys, this is so groundbreaking and you gotta stay for that. Then we go on to the four reasons people really lie, including the ones that masquerade is just protecting you. Knowing the reason why people lie will then allow you to navigate the situation with freaking confidence. And then finally, we talk about the one trap that a lot of us fall into and that's the minimization trap. Guys, this is one of those traps that so many of us women do and it has to stop. It's a thing that we've been taught to do that actually we think will help but won't help at all. So make sure you stay for that. Now, if you want to become fricking a life proof, manipulation proof and finally set a dam, stake in the ground so no one freaking crosses you again, then get ready to courbeous on everything that you've ever been told that is holding you back. So let's do it right now, in part two, starts right here on Women of Impact. All right, so now, to really kind of get and understand Bill's body language and then have a conclusion on whether we think, yes, he really did try to secretly drug his wife because he was sleeping with Russian prostitutes or not.

We're gonna bring up a video that actually was taken

in 2022 and this is an NBC interview

and he's talking about infidelity.

And this was before, obviously,

all of the emails came out,

the Epstein staff and Melinda came out.

Frankly, there were allegations of extramarital affairs. And when she was asked about that in the interview, she said that is a question that Bill needs to answer. So here you are now. Did that happen where you unfaithful in your marriage? Is that one of the reasons there was a divorce? I certainly made mistakes, and I take responsibility. I don't think, um, I've made mistakes. is not I cheated on my wife. It's not lying by a mission right there.

She has. Responsibility, I don't think, I've made mistakes is not, I cheated on my wife. It's not line by omission. Right there. She asked you a very pinpointed question. It was about infidelity. He brought it to where? Mistakes. A mistake could be, you didn't praise her enough. A mistake could be whatever. I forgot birthday. Right? I forgot our anniversary of birthday. We're talking about infidelity. It was super clear in the question.

He avoids it.

Yup. And so you think that was a great question from the interviewer. Great question. And a great deceptive response to say, I'm not going near this one. Can you actually rewind a tiny bit? I wait a wait, my expression is always. Love for you to. And push back if you think I'm crazy.

I will.

Oh, good.

I think you are, but I will.

So here you are now.

Did that happen where you and Faithful in your marriage? is eyes. Love for you to push back if you think I'm crazy. I will. I think you are.

So here you are now. Did that happen where you unfaithful in your marriage? Is that one of the reasons there was there? There. There. There. Did you see that? A wiggly smile. Yes. It was like a weird, smirky, eye thing. All right. So it was the smile. So it wasn't this. It was a full smile.

Both of the corners of his mouth came up.

When we smile, it does affect the eyes.

But you want to know what that smile is?

Yeah. the smart right was the smile so wasn't this it was a full smile both of the corners of his mouth came up when we smile it does affect the eyes but you want to know what that smile is is you're good to pick this up I'm going to say the word contempt but I don't think that's accurate no it's called duper's delight it was coined by Dr. Paul Eckman Godfather of my core expressions and duper's delight is that full grand so both corners coming out on our mouths that we cannot stop we can't hide it. And this is though I called the cat, it's a canary grand. Like, oh, mouths that we cannot stop. We can't hide it.

And it's as though I called the cat a tecanary grin.

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