"I Don't Feel Loved… Well I Don't Feel Respected." The Battle For Love + Respect: Episode 221
EmPowered Couples with The Freemans
Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman
5.0 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 19 April 2022
⏱️ 23 minutes
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In This Episode
is a POWERFUL followup to the last episode on arguments: There is a key underlying cycle that happens in every relationship. It is one of the main patterns that cause conflicts and keep them going without you realizing it!
This principle is written about in a book called Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs. It's a very insightful, simple and powerful principle. Personally we listened to the first 3 chapters (on 1.5 speed) and felt we had gotten the point and urgency enough to put it into practice and share with you about it. Without realizing this cycle you will feel as if you are in a trap and can't get out.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome to the Empowered Couples podcast. We're here you get modern, non-boring relationship advice for you and your partner to communicate like pros, fight smarter, and stay in the same team no matter the challenge that you face. I am one of your host, Aaron Freeman. And I'm Jocelyn Freeman, but you all just know us as the Freeman's. And this episode is about this pattern that you have. I don't feel loved. Well, I don't feel respected. |
| 0:21.6 | The battle for love and respect. |
| 0:23.6 | Yeah, you're going to resonate with a lot throughout this and you're going to see different |
| 0:27.6 | places that this shows up in your relationship. So, Aaron, where does this come from? |
| 0:31.6 | Well, there's a key underlying cycle that happens in every relationship and it is one of the main patterns that cause |
| 0:39.6 | conflicts now this principle we want to dive into is written in a book called love and respect by |
| 0:45.3 | emerson egrets and it's very insightful it's a powerful principle and it's very simple now personally |
| 0:53.7 | i listened to like the first three chapters. |
| 0:56.0 | We were flying to I think Maui it was. |
| 0:58.0 | I listened to it on 1.5 speed, got to the third chapter and pretty much was like, I got the point. |
| 1:04.0 | And also I wanted to get right to like putting this into action because you probably don't realize this is what's happening. |
| 1:12.4 | And it was great because you listened to it. Even after in so many coaching sessions, we have |
| 1:18.0 | watched this play out. Right. Like we would take couples through different communication exercises, |
| 1:22.8 | et cetera. And a lot of times it would come down to these two things, the statements, well, I don't |
| 1:27.4 | feel loved. And then the other well, I don't feel loved. |
| 1:28.3 | And then the other person, I don't feel respected. And then when we saw a book that was like |
| 1:32.0 | correlated with it, we were like proof of exactly what we're hearing and where it comes from. |
| 1:36.7 | Now, before we get into the specifics of this, and you guys are really going to resonate, we've got |
| 1:41.9 | a surprise for you podcast listeners. You are the first to hear about something. We're not really going to resonate. We've got a surprise for you podcast listeners. You are the first |
| 1:46.5 | to hear about something. We're not even going to share about this publicly for a little bit, |
| 1:51.0 | but you get the first opportunity to either text or email us your interest in this. So we do a lot |
| 1:59.1 | of private coaching and we love it, but there's something really powerful about |
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