I Can Buy Myself Flowers... But I Would Rather Just Teach My BF The Habit Loop For It | EP. 25

Sad to Savage

Shelby Sacco

Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Education

5 • 667 Ratings

🗓️ 14 February 2023

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Hi Besties! In this episode, we are chit chatting on communication in relationships. We've all heard the saying, "If he wanted to, he would." And well well well I have thoughts on this. Because sometimes we think everyone *thinks* the same way we do - an ain't that NOT the truth, heyyyy!

Here's a few of the things we cover: How to start voicing your wants in a relationship, how to use communication to set your relationship up for success, understanding how to learn your partner's love language (and share yours), questions to ask your partner to build a strong connection with clear communication.

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0:00.0	Hi, besties, and welcome back to the Sad to Savage podcast. In today's episode, I really want to talk about communication in relationships.
0:08.7	Oh my God, I forgot to introduce myself. My name is Shelby Sacco. If you're a new year, I teach everyone about healthy habits and routines.
0:15.5	And I also am obsessed with communicating. I think that we assume that everyone knows how to communicate when
0:22.9	that's honestly not realistic. That's not the reality that we live in. I got super intercommunication
0:29.2	kind of by accident. I wanted to learn how to like do better at expressing my thoughts and feelings
0:34.2	in terms of my relationship with family members. And what I learned was
0:38.8	insane and has honestly impacted me in every single relationship that I have, whether that's with
0:43.7	my friends, my boyfriend, strangers, how I communicate online, people at my gym, co-workers,
0:49.2	every single person in my life. I communicate differently now and more effectively because I learned
0:54.0	how to communicate.
0:55.4	I specifically want to talk about communication and relationships because of this one specific
0:59.9	line, this thing that I want to debunk. I don't even know if that's the word. This thing I want
1:04.6	to disprove. And it's that saying that's like, if he wanted to, he would. How many times have
1:09.8	people said that to you or how many times have you seen that? Or it's like, oh, like if he wanted to, he would. How many times have people said that to you or how many times
1:11.0	have you seen that? Or it's like, oh, like, if he wanted to be a good boyfriend, he would.
1:14.9	Or oh, if he wanted to post a picture with me, he would. If you wanted to buy me flowers, he would.
1:20.0	Absolutely not. I have a really interesting take on this. I think that sometimes we set ourselves
1:25.6	up for failure by thinking that everyone can read our minds.
1:29.3	Or we think that everyone thinks the way that we think.
1:32.4	When that's no, we think so specifically, we think so differently.
1:36.4	We all interpret different things in our relationships based off completely different factors.
1:42.1	So for example, we all are raised differently. Okay, we're from
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