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Black Girl Burnout

I Am Not a Buffet: Reclaiming Rest & Sovereignty ft. Resmaa Menakem Part 1

Black Girl Burnout

Kelley Bonner

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.7763 Ratings

🗓️ 17 March 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of the Black Girl Burnout Podcast, host Kelley Bonner welcomes the first male guest, Resmaa Menakem, a renowned therapist and trauma specialist. They discuss the vital topic of rest and its significance for Black women. Resmaa offers insights into racialized trauma, cultural dynamics, and how rest can be a revolutionary act for Black women. The conversation highlights the importance of tending to our bodies and minds, and the necessity of breaking away from urgency culture. Despite some audio quality issues, the richness of the dialogue is maintained, promising an enlightening series over the next three weeks. More, more, and still more is within your reach in 2024. Tune in today and prepare yourself to engage in realistic strategies that can help you with opting into a life filled with abundance and joy.


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0:00.0

Welcome to the Black Girl Burnout Podcast, Kelly here, and today is a special, special day.

0:16.0

We have another guest episode for you.

0:20.2

And this one is featuring our first man on the podcast. We are going to have

0:26.9

a fantastic conversation with Resma Medicum. And I'm going to tell you a little bit about Resma.

0:31.9

And when you hear a little bit about him, you're going to understand why I chose him to be our

0:35.6

first male guest on the podcast. And the

0:39.9

conversation we have is truly incredible. Resma is a one of a kind. He understands the dynamics of

0:50.4

black women, the dynamics of black bodies, and how trauma impacts it and how that impacts

0:56.6

the way we see the world, the way we do things, the way we relate to each other within the

1:00.9

culture. Let me tell you a little bit about Resma. Resma Menachim is the founder of the Cultural

1:06.5

Sematics Institute and the author of the New York Times bestselling book, My Grandmother's

1:12.1

Hands, Racialized Trauma, and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies. He's a leading

1:17.9

voice in today's conversation on racialized trauma and what he calls somatic abolitionism.

1:23.9

As a presenter, trainer, consultant, therapist, and trauma specialist,

1:28.6

Resma helps communities, organizations, and individuals to heal the trauma of racialization,

1:34.5

to build stamina and discernment, and encourage emergence.

1:39.8

To learn more about Resma, we're going to put in his show notes at resma.com,

1:43.6

and he has his own

1:45.4

cultural somatics university at think of fic. All will be in the show notes for you. So you see here,

1:51.7

Resma specializes in trauma work, and I first met him years ago. He was doing a podcast as well,

2:00.7

and we had this fantastic conversation about what it

2:04.9

means to heal from trauma and what it means to heal from burnout. And in the course of the conversation,

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