How Your Past Affects Your Relationships • X48

Mind Love™ • Consciousness, Spirituality, and Science for Awakening

Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach

Mindfulness, Inspirational, Personal Growth, Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Consciousness, Religion & Spirituality, Spiritual Growth, Awakening, Mental Health

4.9 • 906 Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2021

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

We will learn:

How you’re creating your own relationship Groundhog’s Day
How to face your past to create a new future
How to work your 7 relationship muscles

How did your last break up go? What went wrong? Was it their fault, or mostly their fault? It always kinda is right?

And the hard truth is that even if your partner is truly awful, it’s worth examining how you attracted that type of person. Why did you allow yourself to settle for someone who treated you less than you deserve?

Regardless of what’s going on around you, you can take your power back by understanding your own role in it.

And part of that includes looking at your past to see how it’s influencing your future.

It’s not always fun, it’s actually kinda messy. But look at it like clearing the weeds before planting your garden.

So that’s what we’re talking about today. Our guest is Roy Biancalana, certified relationship coach.

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0:30.3	Welcome to Mindlove Premium, episode 48.
0:34.0	Today's episode is all about how your past affects your relationships.
0:38.0	What I discovered is that I needed the affection and attention of a beautiful woman to make me feel like a man.
0:44.8	It's like a relationship was going to fill a void or was going to fix a problem or is going to finish the story of not being wanted or help me find an identity.
0:56.0	So what I really, the real reason I wanted a relationship was to heal the wounded parts of me. And because I was in the relationship for that that put an
1:06.4	enormous amount of pressure on my partner to make me feel like a man. I didn't know this consciously, but after I got out of it and I looked back and why was there so much drama?
1:18.0	What was I complaining about in the relationship? Why was I disappointed with this or that?
1:23.0	Why does she break up with me?
1:25.0	Well, me because Roy, no matter what I do, it's never enough for you.
1:29.0	I have a personal question for you. How did your last breakup go? What went wrong? Was it
1:39.7	their fault or mostly their fault? It always kind of is, right? Humor me for a moment though. What if it
1:47.4	wasn't? Trigger warning here, but what if you're the only common denominator in all of your relationship issues?
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