How to make somebody feel worthless by doing nothing at all. I did that. I've done that several times of my life.

It's actually not funny. I actually did that to people that I cared about.

Someone wrote to me and said that he was married. I think it was a man he said he was

married and he's long been separated from this person.

And his current relationship, his current partner, said,

just get it over with, get a divorce. His current partner said,

just get it over with, get a divorce so we can live our lives and be happy.

And so some time went by several months and this new partner, she came to him and said what is the progress what have you done what steps have you taken to get a divorce and And he said, I didn't make any progress. And so since then, she's

been distant, and she's been, I'm going to guess, hurt, because he didn't prioritize her.

This is how you make somebody feel worthless without doing anything at all.

You don't prioritize the person that you care about.

And they feel that. The person that you don't or won't not even prioritize but take into account and consider their

thoughts their emotions and then move forward on something that you said you would do.

When you don't do that, it gets noticed and it compounds.

I will do this for you, or I will do this for you or I will do this thing. It gets noticed when you don't and it compounds

when time goes on. And so he is writing to me saying,

is time the only thing that will heal this?

And I'm gonna say, not necessarily.

It could. You could finally get married to her and everything will be great.

Or it will be something that she holds on to.

How do you get past that? That's a good question. How do you make

someone feel worthy? How do you show them that they are worthy to you.

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