Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago,

and I've been documenting my journey ever since, sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual over clinical, with you instead of at you.

I come unrehearsed on purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

All right, can you finish this sentence?

And you can be blunt, be as honest as you want.

I promise I will not get into a fight with you today,

especially on my podcast.

No one wants to hear us fighting, right?

So the sentence is this, living,

when you're living with John Kim, dot, dot, dot, dot.

I don't know. That's such a hard thing, good. What comes to your mind? When you're living with John Kim, dot, dot, dot, dot.

For the most part, it's very easy. Oh, that's very sweet.

When you're living with Vanessa, I almost said Vanessa Bowie Bennett.

I don't think that goes well.

Too many bees.

Bowie's the middle name of our daughter, Vanessa and Nicole Bennett.

I mean, it is easy, but I'm trying to be, you got to be more specific. I would say

when you're living with Vanessa and Nicole Bennett, the house is organized. The house is

pretty organized. You don't have to worry about, well, okay, I'll tell you this. Sometimes it's messy,

but it's always clean, right? There's a difference between messy and clean. There's a little bit of a tornado in the mornings, but the house is clean. It's organized. We do events. There's always tons of planning. So in that way, there's a structure and safety for sure. Yeah, there's a difference between messy and dirty, right?

I'm going to give Vanessa an assignment. By the way, this podcast episode will be exactly 20 minutes because that's how long it takes for us to get to the gym and also a reminder for you, whether you're in a relationship or not, to get out of the house, have smart feet, just get to the class.

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