Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life

lessons and revelations. I believe in casual over clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

Before today's episode I have a small ask.

John you don't front load and ask it's such a turnoff.

Okay first I just want to say then I really thank you for listening to my podcast.

It has given me a sense of purpose, which has been the greatest gift this world has given me since my rebirth. So thank you for that

sincerely. Here's my ask. So Apple did an update and it has affected the subscribership significantly. So my

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been unsubscribed and also if you have a minute if you can rate and review that would mean the world.

Thank you so much for listening and enjoy

today's episode.

So I'm working on a brand new book and this book is my first solo book about love it's all

encompassing it's about how to attract love a healthy love and also had to build it, right? How to keep it sustainable, how to keep

the plane in the air. And I'm writing apart, this is early early on it's about the our definitions and how we pull from our definitions

So it doesn't matter if we're talking about love or work career friendship, it doesn't matter what the topic is, we pull from our definitions, right?

And our definitions are formed from so many factors, childhood, from parents, definitions that have been passed down, from friends,

society, media, advertising. But what's important is if we are not checking in with ourselves and redefining as we change our definitions,

there's a high possibility that we are tracing other people's definitions, right?

And other people can also mean your old self, because we are evolving growing creatures if we are not re-evaluating our definitions if we're not doing a definition

audit.

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