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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

How to Survive an Upset Child

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.73.8K Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2026

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

When your child melts down, do you freeze, give in, or reach for a distraction trick? Janet explains why trying to stop the storm only makes it worse and how your own triggers and discomfort may be driving your response. She offers advice to help us hold boundaries, encourage our kids' resilience, and create lasting calm. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠NoBadKidsCourse.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠JanetLansbury.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Please support our sponsors! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:44.2

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0:49.5

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0:57.1

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1:02.5

Hi, this is Janet Lansfrey.

1:04.6

Welcome to Unruffled.

1:06.3

Today I'm going to be talking about an eternally challenging topic.

1:10.8

It's something I think about myself

1:13.8

almost on a daily basis. I get asked about it regularly. I recently did a reach out on Instagram

1:21.4

asking for questions, and I started to answer a couple of them. If you go on my Instagram,

1:26.9

you'll see. But one thing I noticed is that there are a a couple of them. If you go on my Instagram, you'll see.

1:27.8

But one thing I noticed is that there are a whole group of them that go like this.

1:33.1

How to stay calm when kids are melting down.

1:36.2

How to hold boundaries when it results in a meltdown.

1:39.5

Another one.

1:40.6

I'm nervous of my five-year-old being upset.

1:42.9

I freeze and find it hard to stay calm.

1:45.7

Any guidance? Here's another one. How to avoid absorbing your kids' emotions, feeling responsible for them.

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