When I just got to a point where I'm like, if a woman was not a hell yes about me, it was a no.

And when a, when a woman was being at all, certainly ghosting or even just like being weird or like not fully in it or whatever, I'm getting that vibe from her, that low energy, it was a turnoff.

And that is ideally what we can all get to with these situations or situations or situation ships or even your ex.

If your ex breaks up with you, they did it for a reason and now once someone has told you that or they bended it, that is unattractive.

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with a friend and enjoy. All right, Gary, today we're going to be talking about how to stop

obsessing over an ex. We'll talk about some psychology and just get into the nitty gritty and some practical

tips that people can use to stop obsessing.

But I should say there is one hack that is guaranteed to work.

Here it is.

If you go on my YouTube channel in the comments, there's these spam comments and they're like,

if you text this WhatsApp number, you can talk to like a voodoo guy and it will stop you from obsessing over your ex. I think you got to send them like 10 bucks or something like that. Absolutely. Do you do not. Yeah, absolutely do not do that. These same people are on my Instagram constantly. They're constantly DMing me on Twitter. The spellcasters, I think,

are some of, I don't know, we can say this on a podcast, some of the lowest forms of human

beings on the planet. Because all they're doing is preying on vulnerable people who are experiencing

heartache. And like, this obsessing about your ex is nothing to joke about. Like, this is a

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