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Love Life With Matthew Hussey

How to Stop Choosing Unavailable People (7 Steps) | Rewind

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, 971900, Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2025

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons).


So how can you get out of this cycle? In today’s episode, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again.


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1:04.7

What weird reason could be responsible for us continuing in our lives to attract emotionally

1:13.3

unavailable people?

1:15.5

And what does going out to dinner and asking everyone else what they want from the menu before

1:21.4

deciding ourselves what to get have in common with the phenomenon of attracting emotionally unavailable people.

1:28.9

In this video, we're going to find out.

1:31.4

Today, we are talking about emotional unavailability, specifically the weird reason why a lot of

1:37.2

us might be continuing to attract emotionally unavailable people in our lives.

1:42.6

So I got a question recently from one of my members saying that

1:46.0

she was struggling to trust herself, that her whole life she had struggled with indecision over

1:52.8

small things like what to order for dinner. She said she would literally have to go around the table

1:58.9

and find out what her friends were getting first

2:01.6

before she ordered her own dinner.

2:03.6

She talked about how all her life she had picked men who were wrong for her,

2:08.6

men who were players, men who were time-wasters, men who had no intention of ever taking anything through to a long-term relationship and that this pattern of attracting emotionally unavailable people is something she had had for a very long time.

2:24.3

In fact, when she dated someone she described as a good guy, she said her friends would point out that she always found a way to sabotage it. Like any time there was a guy

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