How to Start Repairing Broken Relationships, Part 2 - "Back to You"
Your Move with Andy Stanley Podcast
Andy Stanley
4.7 • 3.9K Ratings
🗓️ 14 October 2022
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
When someone wrongs us it’s tempting to want revenge. But in order to repair a relationship, we must fight the urge to get back AT and instead be proactive in getting back TO the other person.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi everybody, welcome to Your Move where we help you make better decisions and live with |
| 0:04.6 | fewer regrets. |
| 0:05.6 | I'm Andy Stanley and I'll be your guide. |
| 0:07.2 | Now I know we've never met but I'm 100% sure that your current relational challenges are |
| 0:12.6 | the other person's fault, right? |
| 0:14.0 | I mean, and since it's their fault, it's their responsibility to fix things, right? |
| 0:18.8 | But what if it is their fault, but it's not their responsibility to fix things? |
| 0:23.0 | What? |
| 0:24.0 | What if that's on you? |
| 0:25.0 | That's disturbing isn't it? |
| 0:26.3 | So let's talk about it right here on Your Move. |
| 0:28.3 | Stick around. |
| 0:29.3 | As you know, most of the things that require assembly, like you need to purchase something |
| 0:38.6 | that you have to put together, always comes with instructions, assembly instructions, and |
| 0:42.5 | those are helpful if it's a toy, right, or furniture, or on one time I purchased, I made |
| 0:47.9 | the mistake of purchasing a grill instead of getting the grill already assembled. |
| 0:52.2 | I thought I'm just going to buy the box, I can do this and go home and do this, and I |
| 0:54.6 | say $50. |
| 0:56.5 | And by the time the grill was almost finished, Sandra would have paid someone $250 if I |
| 1:01.7 | had just paid somebody else to put the grill together because it was kind of a disaster. |
| 1:05.0 | But the point being the grill, anything you purchase to assemble, it comes with assembly |
| 1:08.9 | instructions, but they never include fix it instructions. |
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