Hi everybody, welcome to your move where we help you make better decisions and live

with fewer regrets I'm Andy Stanley and I'll be your guide.

Now, relationship, if you think about it, relationships are a lot like cars, right?

We are way better at starting them than fixing them when they break.

And we think about it.

Starting a relationship is somewhat intuitive, but have you ever tried to fix a broken

relationship, maybe with a coworker or a friend or maybe even a parent that is not

intuitive at all?

But there is a way to fix broken relationships and that's what we're talking about today

right here on your move, stick around.

So 27, 27 years ago, I'm sitting in my dad's office at his church.

It's just my dad and it's two of us and a counselor again.

We're meeting with our counselor every week trying to figure out how to fix our broken

damage relationship.

And the strange thing is if you can kind of put yourself in our position for just a minute,

we'd spend our whole career telling people how to fix broken damaged relationships.

And now we had one and we're the experts and we were stuck and we were angry and we were

hurt.

And here's why, because he saw things his way and I saw things the right way.

And I could not understand for the life of me why we weren't making any progress, right?

I mean, it was this simple dad.

If you will just see things my way, we'll be on our way, right?

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