How to Start Repairing Broken Relationships, Part 2 - "Back to You"
Your Move with Andy Stanley Podcast
Andy Stanley
4.7 • 3.9K Ratings
🗓️ 31 January 2025
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
When someone wrongs us it’s tempting to want revenge. But in order to repair a relationship, we must fight the urge to get back AT and instead be proactive in getting back TO the other person.
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| 0:35.0 | As you know, most of the things that require assembly, like when you purchase something that you have to put together, it always comes with instructions, assembly instructions, and those are helpful if it's a toy, right, or furniture, or one time I purchased, I made the mistake of purchasing a grill instead of getting the grill already assembled, I thought, I'm just going to buy the box, I can do this and go home and do this, and I say $50. And by the time the grill already assembled, I thought I'm just gonna buy the box, I can do this |
| 0:55.0 | and go home and do this, and I say $50. |
| 0:57.0 | And by the time the grill was almost finished, |
| 1:00.0 | Sandra would have paid someone $250 if I had just paid |
| 1:03.0 | somebody else to put the grill together |
| 1:04.0 | because it was kind of a disaster. |
| 1:06.0 | But the point being, the grill, anything you purchase to assemble, |
| 1:08.0 | it comes with assembly instructions, |
| 1:10.0 | but they never include |
| 1:12.0 | fix-it instructions. Instead, they include these. You see this all the time, right? We've included a |
| 1:19.2 | troubleshooting guide, a troubleshooting guide, which for me is generally worthless because the |
| 1:25.0 | trouble that they are shooting is never the trouble I'm actually having, |
| 1:30.1 | right? But generally speaking, we are far better at assembling things than we are at fixing them. |
| 1:35.0 | And that includes relationships as well. We're good at starting relationships. We're pretty good at |
| 1:40.0 | maintaining relationships. But when a relationship breaks or when a relationship gets awkward, |
| 1:45.1 | or there's that silence, or there's that distance, oftentimes we just aren't sure what to do. |
| 1:50.5 | But that doesn't stop us from doing something. We try to fix them, and oftentimes we do it the |
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