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So 27 years ago, I'm sitting in my dad's office at his church. It's just my dad and

two of us and a counselor again. And we're meeting with our counselor every week trying to figure

out how to fix our broken damaged relationship.

And the strange thing is if you can, you know,

kind of put yourself in our position for just a minute.

We'd spend our whole career telling people

how to fix broken, damaged relationships.

And now we had one, and we're the experts,

and we were stuck, and we were angry, and we were hurt.

And here's why. Because he saw things his way, and I saw things the right way.

And I could not understand for the life of me why we weren't making any progress, right? I mean,

it was this simple, dad. If you will just see things my way, we'll be on our way, right? Now,

you laugh, and the reason you laugh is because I know what you're thinking, you're thinking,

finally someone understands me. Finally, someone understands the situation and the circumstances I'm in

as I try to navigate difficult relationships. If you think about your current fractured relationship,

a distant fractured relationship that's actually just been, it's been broken for a long,

long time, it could be recent, distant, it could be family work, a good friend, and there's just

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