Hello, welcome to nobody panic with me Stevie and me Tessa coming to you live

live and kicking I've realized at the start of most of these episodes I always go to immediately like

explain the progress and you always say coming to you live and for some reason I've

still not figured out that I should pause at that point so you can say coming to you live

from the bunker well I should let you listen

look we're both at fault I should let you no no I wasn't saying anything I was just going to be like this is a

podcast where we help you do things unhelpful if you're listening you probably already

know that. I think it does what it says on the tin. What's on the tin? What's on the tin?

What's on the tin today? It is a hundred grams of restarting a friendship that's died.

Or the sort of more jovially light-hearted title, how to restart a friendship.

True.

Because it also, friendships don't just die.

And I think that's the thing.

When you are, when I was younger, when I was younger, I thought that you know you had your friends

and then you'd have them for the rest of your life, fine.

And then if you didn't, that was like,

oh my God, the friendship is dead.

It's like a very sad thing.

A lot of my friends would have, you know, friends from when they were growing up and they would see them all the time still and like having this kind of group of girls that are with you, all guys that are with you for your whole life, the whole journey in all the films, it's always like like I've been with you since you were in diapers man and you're like oh wow

I want someone who saw me in diapers but actually the reality is is that people come in and out of your life and so I've got some some friends that I see

maybe once a year that I grew up with that you know I don't we don't call each other every

week and we don't like go for drinks all the time but they'll always be my friends and then I've got other

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