How to Quit Downplaying and Set Higher Standards for the Life of Your Dreams

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Business, Entrepreneurship

4.6 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 8 April 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Are you dimming your goals to make others more comfortable? In this episode, Chris and I talk about what standing up for your standards actually looks like (and why it’s key to changing EVERYTHING). We unpack the quiet resentment that builds when you don’t speak up, and how even something as simple as how your towels are folded has deeper patterns. Plus, we give you all the details about our brand-new mastermind for businesses making $25k–$500k/year and how to get on the early access waitlist before it fills up! Check out our Sponsors: Brevo - Meet the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform for your business. Get started free or save 50% for 3 months with code HAPPY at brevo.com/happy Airbnb - Start making money by listing your home on Airbnb with an experiences Co-host, find a co-host at airbnb.com/host Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/happy The RealReal - Buy and sell luxury clothing, bags, and more on The RealReal. Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to therealreal.com/happy HIGHLIGHTS What happens when you settle for “good enough”. Why I bought a $1,000 bikini. What my old party crew said when I tried to grow. How to choose the environment that matches your dream. Chris’ story of standing up for excellence at work. How small standards affect your whole life. The secret to attracting (and keeping) A-players. ONE standard you need to finally stand up for. RESOURCES Get on the waitlist for our new mastermind HERE! Text “WAITLIST” to 310-421-0416 for EARLY ACCESS of our new mastermind! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

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0:00.0	This podcast is sponsored by the following sponsors.
0:04.1	The Real Real, buy and sell luxury clothing, bags, and more on The Real Real.
0:07.7	Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to the realreel.com forward slash happy.
0:13.1	Shopify.
0:13.8	The e-commerce platform I trust for Glosi.
0:16.4	Sign up for your $1 a month's trial period at Shopify.com forward slash happy.
0:21.1	Brevo. Meet the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform for your $1 a month trial period at Shopify.com forward slash happy. Brevo, meet the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform for your business.
0:25.4	Get started free or save 50% for three months with code happy at brevo.com forward slash happy.
0:31.5	Airbnb, start making money by listing your home on Airbnb with the support of an experienced
0:36.5	co-host. Find a co-host at
0:38.3	Airbnb.com forward slash host. They're going to say things like, oh, you really think you
0:43.8	can do that. Oh, are you too good for us? Oh, let me guess. You're going to order the salad tonight.
0:49.8	At the time, like I played them off like, ha ha, oh, it's a funny joke. I know it's ridiculous. It's a ridiculous goal.
0:56.0	I downplayed and apologized for what I knew I wanted and why I came to this planet.
1:02.0	This was the moment when I really started to understand that apologizing for my standards
1:07.0	was not going to get me anywhere.
1:17.2	And we're back with another episode of He Said She Said.
1:22.1	Real quick, if you are not on the wait list yet for our brand new program for businesses earning between $25,000 and $500,000 a year, what are you doing because it's the greatest,
1:28.2	most supportive business program on the internet? Lori, what's your favorite part about it? My favorite part is the fact
1:32.3	that you do not have to wait for answers. I remember back in the day, Chris, when we were
1:37.0	building my fitness membership for workouts online, this was like 15 years ago. So we were kind of
1:43.9	one of the first at the time.
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