How to Put Yourself First + Stop Your Need to People Please
Morning Rae
Allana Blumberg
4.3 • 525 Ratings
🗓️ 27 May 2024
⏱️ 29 minutes
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#179. The tendency to people please is more common than you think, but it doesn't have to be the way you "just" are. You have every power to change that and to grow into someone who is self-secure, confident and sure of themselves, their wants, needs, values and beliefs, and isn't afraid to state them even if they may not align with the next person. Lan shares how she has overcome an immense desire to people please and has become more sure of who she is in her 20s. Enjoy!! x
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, good morning and welcome back to Morning. I've decided to do an episode on people |
| 0:12.4 | pleasing. Essentially like, why do you people please? Why are us as women more likely to people |
| 0:19.2 | please than men? Navigating it, how to overcome it, |
| 0:23.3 | especially when it comes to people pleasing in our friendships and in relationships or dating. |
| 0:30.3 | I know this is something I personally have always struggled with and I think I have honestly |
| 0:37.0 | really worked on overcoming it, have learned how to communicate |
| 0:42.0 | my wants and needs, put myself first, and to set boundaries and stick by them and to be able |
| 0:48.8 | to communicate effectively, especially when it comes to dating. As usual, you guys, as lately, not usual, but I dove into |
| 0:57.8 | some articles and did some research, so a lot of this is very factual. I'll have it all linked |
| 1:03.5 | in the show notes, as I always do. I don't really have any current faves this week, except for the |
| 1:08.8 | weather. It's been honestly beautiful here in |
| 1:11.3 | Toronto and it's been lovely and such a privilege getting to run in the sun and |
| 1:18.4 | just get to spend time outdoors it's honestly kind of a tease because I feel like I |
| 1:25.7 | have to put myself in adult jail in my apartment and do work, |
| 1:29.6 | but I just want to be outside and play. And that is the downfall of working for yourself |
| 1:34.3 | because you can just go outside and play. Obviously, I have to get my work done, but like, |
| 1:38.9 | I can go outside and play. No one's really stopping me. I'm not being held hostage in an office |
| 1:43.4 | building. My supervisor isn't going to come check in on me. Summer is's really stopping me. I'm not being held hostage in an office building. My supervisor isn't |
| 1:45.2 | going to come check in on me. Summer is always a fun time being self-employed, but I've honestly |
| 1:50.7 | just been having fun in the sun, as cheesy as that is, but just been having a lot of fun being, |
| 1:57.7 | honestly, I would say a current fave is being being spontaneous I feel like I'm very much back |
| 2:02.9 | in my saying yes to things that serve me and not making excuses or holding myself back from doing |
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