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The GaryVee Audio Experience

How to Not Give a F*ck and Still be Nice

The GaryVee Audio Experience

Gary Vaynerchuk

Business, Marketing, Entrepreneurship

4.818.1K Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2022

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Today's episode is all about being kind in the face of negativity, not caring about anyone else's negative opinions of you while still valuing the positive ones and why I always choose kindness and love as a leader over fear and power.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is the Gary V. Audio Experience.

0:04.0

Yeah.

0:05.0

And there's a lot you don't know even with the people you're closest to.

0:09.0

That's just actually the way it is.

0:11.0

Yeah.

0:12.0

I know exactly what I'm up to.

0:14.0

Yeah.

0:15.0

Right?

0:16.0

Like I know I am desperate for the scratching of the curiosity of how much positive impact can I have.

0:26.0

Well, but it's so fascinating. And when I watch you and I'm always like, you know, I, when you were first getting started and I'm, you know, it's like how you say things that people are usually afraid to say, you know, like I feel like I have a lot of opinions and I have, but I filter myself a lot because I, you know, and maybe for me it's like I'm running this big business that is, you know, I mean listen if I around election time if I ever say how I feel or what I think inevitably, like I posted something recently from

0:56.0

Joel Olstein who I think he's a pretty rad dude. I like him. I posted and a lot of people were like, I can't believe you support this guy. I'm unfollowing you, which is like whatever I don't fucking care.

1:06.0

You can unfollow me.

1:07.0

But I'm like, here's the thing. I'm like, fuck, I have to be so I live in this like walk the line. Everyone has ever was.

1:15.0

And it's like we live in this candle culture where everyone's so fucking mad about fucking everything. And it's like you seem to like rise above that. And I guess you know,

1:23.0

it's, it's, you know, it's funny. I don't, I'm a human. It's actually actually, you know, I've been in my feelings lately, which is going to, I'm really excited because I'm going to give you a really good interview. I can feel I can feel it already.

1:37.0

I talk a lot about not caring.

1:40.0

And I, in the macro, I do not. And what I mean by that is I actually care about everything. I actually genuinely care what I mean by that is I'm curious. I'm appreciative. I'm not delusional.

1:56.0

I am empathetic.

1:58.0

This is that person's point of view of me. They're more right than I am.

2:02.0

I'm not audacious or tone deaf. What I mean by I don't care is I know that if somebody is spewing venom at me on my page.

2:15.0

I'm emotionally aware enough to know, oh crap, that person's in a tough spot. That like the thought I don't have time to consume content of people I admire and enjoy.

2:31.0

I'm taking time to consume something of someone I don't.

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