How to Manage Defensive People
The Look & Sound of Leadership
Essential Communications - Tom Henschel
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 7 August 2025
⏱️ 28 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, everyone, Tom here. |
| 0:01.7 | A quick word before we begin. |
| 0:04.2 | Something happened recently that I am coming to believe is not all that unusual. |
| 0:09.6 | Recently, within the span of about one month, I found myself talking with three different clients who had no relationship to each other. |
| 0:17.2 | I found myself three times talking about managing people who are highly defensive. |
| 0:24.5 | I can go a whole year without talking about that topic, and then suddenly within one month the topic |
| 0:29.9 | comes up three times, it caught my attention. Topics coming in waves has happened to me before. |
| 0:37.7 | So, as I say, perhaps it's not that unusual. |
| 0:41.1 | And maybe it's not just my three clients who have this on their minds right now. |
| 0:47.2 | With that thought in mind, I want to offer you the same two tools I shared with my three clients. |
| 0:53.4 | The first is a PDF called Managing Defensive Employees. |
| 0:58.6 | All three of these clients found it helpful. |
| 1:01.3 | You can download it from our Tools Bin or just look in the show notes. |
| 1:05.2 | There's a link there. |
| 1:06.1 | Help yourself. |
| 1:07.1 | That's tool number one. |
| 1:09.0 | Second, that PDF was created to support an episode called Taming the Defensiveness Dragon. |
| 1:18.9 | I listened back to the episode when the topic came up with the first client, and I was surprised by how many tools were in it. |
| 1:25.8 | I ended up sharing that episode with all three clients. |
| 1:29.0 | They all found different things in it that were very helpful for them. |
| 1:32.7 | So I'm reminding you about the PDF. |
| 1:35.2 | That's number one. |
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