The best way to be authentic about this, I think, is to try to make yourself just as

missable as possible, right? Like, be a good partner. Be a good partner, right? Be their partner

who, when your partner sees you, they have fun with you, you're kind, you're considerate,

you're respectful, you do nice things for them, you make their life easier. Don't be the nagging pain

downer that like every time your partner sees you like, oh God, what's it going to be now? Like,

don't be that person. Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast where we help successful women attract

high value men, date with a strategy,

and improve their relationships. Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship,

we're here to help you dive into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else,

backed by science, psychology, and our own personal experiences. Your host today are myself,

Adam Laudalche, professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies,

and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach

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All right, Gary, this week we are going to be using one of the clickbaities of the clickbait

headlines, which is how to make a man miss you. And the reason why I say is click bait is because I know for a fact, anytime we talk about this topic, women want to hear a lot about it because it's probably a pretty big problem, right? You're like starting to date someone, you like them, and you want them to just invest more in the relationship than they are already. So that's what we're

going to be talking about today. What do you think? So that's what I was going to ask you, right?

So I know we talked about this at a time about like, hey, we're going to be talking about like how to

make a man miss you. And you said that women love this topic. Why do you think they love it so

much? Well, is this a problem? Like, do guys just not miss women?

Well, the real question is, why isn't he investing in me a lot of times?

And how do I make him invest more? And one thing that we talk a lot about in Love Accelerator in the earliest stages of dating is the power of creating scarcity.

And I think a lot of women in particular, when they are first

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