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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

4 Psychological Signs He's Falling in Love With You

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Adam Lodolce, How To Find Love, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Love Strategies, Society & Culture, Relationship Advice, Why Men Pull Away, Relationships, How To Improve My Relationship

4.6645 Ratings

🗓️ 11 December 2022

⏱️ 8 minutes

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Have you ever wondered how to know if a guy is falling in love with you? The biggest sign is if he tells you he loves you, but what if he's holding out on those three words as I did? I waited five months before I first said "I love you" to Jessica. It wasn't because I didn't love her sooner; it was because I said it way too fast in my previous relationship, only to break up with that woman a week later (sorry!). So I wanted to wait and make sure my feelings were real this time. The moral of m...

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Now, when I first met Jessica, oh my God, was I in love? But guess what? I waited five months

0:05.8

before telling her that. I mean, we met on January 1st, and I waited until May 22nd. And yes,

0:12.2

she reminds me of this every year when we get to May 22nd. So why did I wait? Now, the sad,

0:16.9

weird truth is that in my last relationship before Jessica, I actually told her that I loved

0:22.5

her very quickly. And I realized the moment that I said it that I actually didn't like her

0:28.3

at all really. So I ended up breaking up with her a week after telling her that I loved her,

0:32.4

which caused the worst breakup imaginable. So I brought forward this fear to Jessica, which is why I waited five months. Does that make sense? I don't know. Let's get into the psychology of my brain. But the moral of the story is that a man could be falling in love with you, but he just hasn't said it yet. So here are four signs that you can look for that he actually is. Hey there, my name is Adam Littal founder of Love Strategies.com, where I help successful

0:57.0

single women get out there and attract love with a proven strategy.

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And let's just jump into these four psychological signs that a man is falling in love with you.

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Number four is that he stops checking you out and he starts actually gazing into your eyes. The Journal of Psychological Science actually did a study on this and what they did is had men take a look at photos of women that they were sexually interested in and in some photos of women that they loved.

1:21.6

And what they found is that when men only had a sexual desire for that woman, surprise, surprise, men just looked at their body.

1:28.8

And they're kind of like checking them out and they could see it with their eyes.

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But when a man was actually in love with the woman in the photo, he would actually gaze into her eyes.

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And I know this is not groundbreaking science because obviously that happens.

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But I definitely noticed myself, even when I was falling in love,

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it does internally as a man go from this moment of like,

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you're kind of checking her out and trying to get to know her sexually.

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And that's kind of how men date is their first drawn to a woman on a sexual level.

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But then it shifts where you look at her, it's just kind of like, oh.

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And you just start to feel something much,

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much different. And it's much less about checking out her body or anything like that and much more

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about just wanting to kind of gaze into her soul. And that sounds really cheesy, but it's true.

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