How to Know Whether it's Time to Move In or Move On | Relationship Theory

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4.8 • 700 Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2022

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Moving in together can be one of the biggest steps you take in your relationship. When do you know it’s time to make the move, why might you or your partner have hesitations, and what should you do if your partner keeps making excuses to not do it? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu sit down to discuss these matters and more as they explore what you should do if moving in with your loved one is proving to be more difficult to make happen than first anticipated. They discuss what to do when they’re not ready for the move, why you should be logical and honest, why you should know whether it’s worth it or not to even be in the relationship, how to approach the move like a written contract, and why you need to be absolutely clear on what your needs are with your partner. SHOW NOTES: Moving In | Lisa and Tom discuss what to do if your partner isn’t ready to move in. [0:16] Logical | Tom and Lisa share their story of moving in together. [2:32] Honesty | Lisa and Tom discuss why you have to articulate the ‘why’ behind your decision. [3:33] Worth It | Tom shares the time when he weighed the sacrifices of being with Lisa. [6:04] Contract | Lisa and Tom discuss how living together should be treated like a contract. [8:17] PTSD | Lisa and Tom discuss why you need to be open about your past living situations. [10:53] No Bullsh*t | Tom and Lisa discuss why you should be clear on what your pain point is [11:57] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:49.9	slash setup. You know when you're in a relationship and you're really feeling the vibes with your partner
0:57.1	and you're really excited about where the relationship is going and then every so often they start
1:02.7	doing little things where you're like I'm not sure they see the relationship the way I do.
1:07.6	I'm taking it really seriously. I actually want to maybe move in and they're avoiding it.
1:13.0	Guys, if you are or have been in a relationship where you're starting to sense the other person
1:18.1	isn't aligned with where you are in that relationship, then this episode is for you.
1:22.8	Me and the hubby really go deep and talk about all the details of how on earth you approach these situations
1:28.6	of moving in together, of moving across the country, because that's what I did. I literally
1:32.9	not even across the country, I moved across the world for my husband. So when you're doing
1:37.9	things like that, when you're sacrificing, when you're making a commitment, how on earth do
1:42.7	you navigate that and know that it's actually the right move, that they actually want it, that you're making a commitment, how on earth do you navigate that and know that it's actually
1:45.9	the right move, that they actually want it, that you're really aligned? Well, that's what we cover
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