How To Find The Perfect Partner! (What It Takes To FIND & KEEP Love) | Matthew Hussey

Women of Impact

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Relationships, Education, Society & Culture

4.8 • 700 Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2022

⏱️ 137 minutes

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Longing for a loving relationship that will stand the test of time is a dream for many people and yet it’s one of the hardest things to find. Building a long lasting love takes vulnerability, trust and a lot of communication. It also takes getting into a loving relationship with yourself. One of the worst things we can do when we’re dating is lack the self-trust, self-love and honesty we need to see the person we’re dating for who they really are. It’s easy to get carried away with a perception of your partner when you’re dating and everything is new. Matthew Hussey, relationship expert and bestselling author of Get the Guy, strongly urges women to boldly ask the right questions and not fear scaring the right person for them away. Stop fighting for dead-end, painful relationships that make you question your sanity and if the version of reality you’re living is actually real. Learn the rules for dating that allow you to invest in the right relationship and trust yourself to know when it’s time to leave because the intention and alignment is not right. SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Matthew Hussey 0:10 | Want to Find Love? 21:51 | Build Long Lasting Love 48:47 | Commit to the Right Person 1:09:20 | Love Vs. Lust 1:35:06 | Bonus: Communication is Key Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:23.6	Everyone fights for a relationship based on potential.
0:27.6	In the early stages of dating, it's actually very important.
0:32.6	People bring their past into the present. They cannot let go of the toxicity from the past relationship, from the hurt of the last relationship. And you said it earlier, right, confirmation by. So then go into the next relationship and it's like, oh, because let's say they ex did it. Oh, he did that. It must mean this is a toxic relationship and they bail. Like they don't give it the
0:55.2	investment that any relationship may need because they've already written it off. Yes. There are,
1:01.9	so what we're talking about here in a sense is, is a form of trust. Yeah. How do you trust the next
1:09.1	time round that it will be different?
1:13.6	Right.
1:14.6	I think that we focus on the wrong thing there.
1:18.6	I think that we focus on...
1:21.6	And actually I think a lot of advice that's given gets people to focus on the wrong thing,
1:26.6	because a lot of people say, you have to to focus on the wrong thing because a lot of people say you have to trust you know this is a different person this is a different situation you have to go
1:35.6	in trusting and it's like it's like it might be a different person might be the same person all over again.
1:45.1	I mean, you don't know.
1:46.4	The point is, you don't know, and you can't know.
1:50.0	You can't know how someone might disrespect you, cheat on you, lie to you,
1:56.5	betray you, you can't know.
2:00.3	And if you can't know, reassuring someone that this,
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